what not to do on a first datwe (if you want a second)

okay, so maybe some of us are lacking in the etiquette department - this post is for you.

1) dont sleep with your date (seriously...no matter how much pent up rip your clothes off passion you have building up in your loins...do not do it. you will regret it...girls....he wont call you back...guys...she'll never want to look at you again because it was probably a mistake which resulted from too much of the vino

2) dont talk about your exes/past relationships/anything negative...save it for later, or better yet never. leave the past in the past and look forward. your date will feel like you never got over it and will think youre not ready for something new.

3) dont be late for your date, its rude especcially on a first date where impressions count.

4) dont get wasted. Okay we've all done this...some of us can get past it but if you know you arnt the best drinker and you have nerves...dont drink too calm them down. have one drink per every hour and make sure to have water on hand.

5) dont be rude. this is just about being an overall class act. even if your date isnt what you expected dont check out other girls or guys, dont just get up and leave, dont be insulting or degrading. Have the date, unless absoutely unbearable, and be mature. A good way to avoid a totally dfreadful date is to never commit to a long first date...drinks/coffee/dessert is always short and sweet.

6) dont let your bodily functions get the best of you. You would be surprised how many times i hear that someone's date farted, burped, peed behind a bush, or threw up. yes. dont do it or ill come after you!!

7) dont just talk about you. this is another no brainer that some people forget.

8) dont be overlly nervous, people can sense that and its often a bad thing. men and especially women are attracted to confidence. portray this in what you wear, how you act and what you say. women can smell fear.